Hello everyone, Kim here, and I wanted to tell you about the program I used to save my marriage, even though my husband was dead set on getting a divorce.
For the past few years, my marriage was not even close to what I thought it should be. The thing is, there wasn't one specific thing I could point to that was throwing us off. I am a working mother of 3 and Kevin is very busy with work.
Needless to say, our paths didn't cross very often, and when we did see each other, our relationship was curt, short, and very passive aggressive.
After a while, it became apparent that we were living separate lives. He had his work, meetings and hobbies, and I had work, the kids, and PTA. Our marriage wasn't working.
One day, I got fed up. I spent the entire morning researching marriage counselors and called a few to see what they were all about. I identified 3 counselors that I thought could help us work though our problems. That evening, after the kids were in bed, I asked Kevin if we could talk.
He said he wanted to talk too. My heart sank because I knew what he was going to say. I had been suspecting that he had been considering divorce, but I was in denial.
I was right, before I could even suggest counseling, my husband told me he wanted a divorce, and his mind was made up. I was angry, devastated. I yelled, I cried, I begged him to change his mind, but he would not. He wouldn't even consider counseling!
I spent the next few days in mourning. My marriage was over, or so I thought. Then one day, I googled “How to save my marriage even though my husband wants a divorce” and I came upon a program by a PhD named Lee Baucom.
The program had methods and techniques to open lines of communication, to bring back the love, even if my husband had given up. Dr. Lee calls it “Relationship Judo”! Within weeks, our relationship was tolerable again, and my husband had reconsidered divorce. Within a month, we were feeling pretty good about our relationship, I would say better than we had for a few years!
We are still working on our marriage, using the methods in Dr. Lee's program, but every day seems to be a little better than the previous.
I have put a link in the description just in case you find yourself in a similar situation. Click it to learn more about Dr. Lee's marriage saving program.